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Remove Words Like *I Can't* From Your Vocabulary
By Gordon Bellows
Start paying close attention to what you say - you may be alarmed by
how often you say things like *I can't* or *that won't work.* Without
realizing it, you are limiting yourself and closing your mind to the
possibilities that might be available.
The mind is capable of producing wonderfully amazing results. However,
all too often, we place limits on the power of the mind because of the
words we use and the commands we feed into it.
You see, although the mind is capable of great results, it will
function according to the type of input it receives, or how it is
programmed. So, when we say, *I can't* the mind will treat that input
as a command of sorts and the *I can't* attitude becomes reality. It
works the same for other negative words or phrases.
Instead of slamming the door shut on a world of possibilities, give
yourself a chance by using different phrases and letting your mind go
to work for you.
For example, when you stop saying *I can't* and start using the phrase
*how can I?* you are giving your mind a task to perform. The mind will
go to work attempting to answer that question and provide you with
possible solutions.
Here are some generic examples of asking your mind for
solutions:
Old *I can't do that.*
New *How can I do that?*
Old *I can't become _____.*
New *How can I become _____?*
Old *I can't afford to do/go/have _____.*
New *How can I afford to do/go/have _____?*
Okay, here are some specific examples:
Old *I can't make ten sales in one week.*
New *How can I make ten sales (or more) in one week?*
Old *I can't afford to get a better car.*
New *How can I afford to get a better car?*
Old *I will never be successful with a home business.*
New *How can I be successful with a home business?*
It really helps to ask the questions with a positive attitude and
truly believe that possible solutions will be provided.
Any possible solution that your mind provides you with could be a
simple idea that slowly takes shape, it may strike you like a bolt of
the blue, or it could wake you out of a sound sleep, in which case you
should jot it down at once. The solution may even be something you
have seen or thought about before, but now you are seeing it with a
new perspective.
It is exciting when you realize that the unlimited creative power of
your mind has been hard at work coming up with solutions to the
questions you ask of it.
The solution(s) may come within a matter of moments or it could be
days before one appears. The important thing is to recognize it as a
possible solution and decide if it is a good answer to the question of
*how can I?*
Once you have the answer, take action!
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