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How to face a
problem
Don’t Run Away, Face It… PROBLEM!!
One fine Sunday around 10.30 p.m., I heard a loud noise and later I found
somebody was knocking my door. I went and opened the door and asked “Who
are you, how can I help you?” but the reply was so unusual “please calm
down yourself. Once I tell my name people usually get scared and became
nervous.” the voice said, “People call me as PROBLEM, I hope now you got
it. Now tell me, do you want me to come inside”? I said, “You are most
welcome my dear friend and let me have the pleasure of being with you for
sometime.
Others may treat you as an enemy but I consider you as a part of life and
I am even ready to keep your company for my entire journey. But one
request, my friend, please excuse me from tomorrow onwards come soon,
please don't disturb my sleep.” Next day PROBLEM came and knocked the door
again, I went and opened the door, today I found one more problem and this
problem was different from the previous one. I requested them again -
please come as early as possible, don't disturb my sleep.”
Tuesday night, PROBLEM came along with its team and knocked the door
again, I went and opened the door and said “welcome to this optimistic
world and good night to you all…” Next day the problem came with a large
group of problems and was shocked because the door was kept open for them
this time; I became very clever and put them under pressure and told “You
see, you can no longer disturb my sleep.” After sometime there were
innumerable problems in his room. The first problem came to my side and
asked me how I felt about it. I said “I have no problem, but do you feel
comfortable here. I keep striding on my way, you neither can prevent me
nor can you divert me,” saying this he moved on. “Don't try to solve all
the problems, sometime one should know how to hold the problem and tackle
it when problem gets weaker or when you became stronger.”
Written By: MR. T.
Dilli babu is a psychologist who is specialist in Human Resource
Development (HRD). His areas of interest are Counseling and training. Mr.
Dilli Babu started his lives journey in the year 1979, at the age ten he
started his academic career. MR. Dilli Babu has a Bachelors degree in
Sociology from Loyola College, Chennai-34. Then did his M.Sc., in Human
Resource Development (HRD) Psychology in university of Madras. He has done
a study on Human Resource Development in NGOs. The study was done at JEEVA
JYOTHI, a NGO working with the children in Chennai. He has done a study on
stress management in ITES industries. Mr. Dilli Babu is a CEO of Win or
Win Consulting. He has developed a method to motivate people and coined a
slogan “EVERYTHING IS POSSIBLE- try, try until you succeed….”
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